Friday, January 30, 2015

Lessons from Petra

Our recently deceased dog Petra was a Shiba Inu which is a Japanese breed known to be reserved and independent. He would come into our room at night and sometimes, I would wake up.   One night while I was getting back to sleep I began to think about dogs and how they are a unique animal that seems to be have been created to be "man's best friend". I wondered about the characteristics of dogs and what they could teach us maybe about our relationship to God. Here are a few of my thoughts. Bear in mind that our dog is an inside pet and I'm not a dog expert by any means and this is the first dog that I have ever had so these were just my thoughts and observations. 

Dogs rely completely on their owner - unlike cats which roam outside freely and can catch their own food, a dog seems to me to be totally dependent on their owner for everything. They eat when we say, go out when we say etc. This is how we need to be with our Father, relying completely on Him for everything. 
They love to be close to their owner - eventhough my Shiba Inu is independent he still likes to be around either me or my husband. He'll sit in the same room but just isn't the type to need to be petted, as long he is in the vicinity of either of us he's content. If we      move to another room he'll follow. I know other dogs are very much more affectionate and need a lot of petting. We need to love to be close to God.

They love to eat what we eat - this may be bad training on our part! but our dog knows when we have some juicy beef bone or possible left overs and he will wait until he's certain that he's not getting any before he'll eat his own food. When I come in from shopping he looks eagerly at the bags to see if  I'll pull out any goodies for him. We are given so much spiritual food straight from the mind of our Father and we need to be eager to eat it.


They can be stubborn - As I mentioned, Shiba Inu's are by nature independent. Sometimes he will be lying down and I will call him and he'll just ignore me. I might have to call him three times and make my voice sharp for him to even look up! We need to not have this characteristic and be receptive and quick to respond to God's direction.

Dogs quickly bounce back from correction - whenever Petra does something naughty and gets told off or spanked he'll slink off by himself for a while. It won't be long though until he comes shyly back looking for a rub. That's how we need to be when we are corrected and realize that it's for our good and God never stops loving us.                        
    They fast and seclude themselves when they need to recuperate - A few months ago Petra was attacked by a couple of pit bulls and had some fairly severe lacerations to his back, neck and leg. He was in pain and shook up. When we brought him home from the vet he spent the next two weeks barely eating, not wanting to interact with us and hiding in the bathroom or other quiet areas of the house. Exactly 14 days later he emerged back to his normal self. Sometimes we need to take time out to fast and reflect to get ourselves back to spiritual health.
      What are some of the lessons you've observed from "man's best friend"?
                                             

        Friday, January 16, 2015

        Remembering Mr Armstrong in my life




        Today is the 29th anniversary (or should I say memorial) of Mr Herbert W Armstrong's death. I came into the WCG in June 1985 in England so I never did get to meet him or see him speak live. However, his impact on my life was monumental from the first time that I picked up the Plain Truth magazine as a teenager.
        July-Aug 1983


        First Issue in 1934

        This is one of the first Plain Truths that I read in 198.  It had an article "Is all flesh good for food" which prompted me to take my first step by ceasing to eat unclean meats.


        It's been a privilege to be here to see so many of his prophecies come to pass and continuing to unfold. This year is going to be very very interesting.












        Friday, January 9, 2015

        Inspiring Lives

        I love stories about how ordinary people have endured through extraordinary trials. Last night we went to see the movie "Unbroken" which we were excited to see because we had read the book.
        This morning I read an article in the latest Royal Vision (Jan/Feb 2015) by Mr Hilliker "Endure Hardness". They complemented each other well because the movie is about how Louis Zamperini endured a brutal time in WW2 including a 40+ day ship-wreck and a sadistic Japanese POW guard.

        The RV article really brings out how much we need to push ourselves out of our comfort zones and appreciate our trials for the character it builds. It's such a hard concept for us as humans to embrace. I know I am "soft" in many areas.

        If you want some inspiration and encouragement in enduring put "Unbroken" on your reading list (the book is 10x better than the movie). Another great read is "It's not what happens to you, It's what you do about it" by W Mitchell. He went through a horrific bike accident and was burned badly which left him disfigured, then 4 years later, he was paralyzed in a plane crash.

        Some other inspiring books I have read are: The Hiding Place and The Helen Keller Story.

         What other endurance movies or books have you found inspiring?

        Friday, December 12, 2014

        Focus on the Good



        At a feast a few years ago, one of the ministers mentioned that he kept a regular journal and would indicate whether the entry was a positive or negative . I had been keeping a journal but tended only to write when something negative happened or something was bothering me. Hearing this idea gave me the thought to be more balanced and use it to give a fair assessment of my days. So now I prefix my entries with "Good" or "Bad".

        Examples of what I would prefix with "Good" are:  I meet someone that had some information I needed; an article is on pcog.org that provides help with an issue that I prayed about; I land a bargain at the store; I am able to help someone.  Here are some of the things I noticed from doing this:
        • It's easy to focus on and remember the bad things that happen, it takes more effort to recall the good things.
        • I try to write the good things as soon as possible (I keep a digital journal) as I have found that if I wait until the end of the day it's so easy to forget the many little good things that happened (how short the memory is).
        • By doing this I have found that I can monitor my life and see trends. If a lot of "bads" are showing up it makes me take stock of my life to see why.
        • It enhances my prayers because I am able to thank God in detail for more of the big and small blessings he gives.  
        • Sometimes, something that I thought was negative actually turns out to be a positive and it's great to go back and edit that entry and note how things worked out. It makes me see truth in "all things work together for good". 
        • It puts life in perspective to see it in black and white as I said before the negative gets exacerbated in our minds over the good. I have truly seen how there is much more positive things that happen in reality. 
        Give this a try yourself even just for a week. You may be surprised by how much more aware and thankful you become of the good stuff that goes on in your life and also catch yourself when there are things you need to work on before they get out of hand.


        Friday, December 5, 2014

        Grow old with me!

        Grow old along with me! 
        The best is yet to be.


        These famous lines come from the poem Rabbi Ben Ezra by Robert Browning. Today is our 15th wedding anniversary and as I was reflecting on it, these verses came to mind probably because we had dinner last night with a couple who have been married 43 years and a widow who was married 57 years. That put our 15 into perspective! In my work with seniors it has become commonplace to find marriages of multiple decades even longer than I've been alive. Such a wonderful contrast to what we see on the hollywood news where a marriage of longevity is an aberration.


        There's something wonderful about building a life with another person who knows all about you and is committed to you. You've shared so many situations that no one else in the world knows about it, seen each other cry, shared in-jokes, the coded look and secret touch.

        I believe that marriage is the greatest opportunity to see a reflection of your true self. It can be quite alarming (!), but there is so much comfort in the knowing that you have a safe environment to grown in. Kenny and I read an article Via La Difference which we could relate to so well as we have a built in difference just in nationality - he is American and I am British. You would think that these kindred nations are quite alike but we noticed some cultural things very early on in our dating and we still laugh today over a few incidents.  Here are a few of the things I enjoy about our marriage:

        • We can just hang.  There's no awkwardness in silence, yet we can discuss almost anything openly. 
        • We laugh alot. Kenny is hilarious in ways that other's don't see. 
        • We help each other. I know that if I'm not feeling well Kenny will take up the slack.
        • He is so positive. I have rarely seen him get down (and if he does it's very short-lived) even though he has dealt with constant pain for many years, he remains cheerful and upbeat.
        • He loves God. 

        I so appreciate being married to this man of steel and velvet, and look forward to continuing to grow together in this life and then live our eternity as the Holmes team!


        Friday, November 21, 2014

        Creation Reflections

        On Friday nights I like to watch a video about nature or the universe.  It's a great way to enter the Sabbath and be reminded of how awesome God's creation is. Here are some of my favorites.

        The Heavens Declare the Glory of God




        Blood Design shows God's Creation

        This one is fun too because it was made before all the fancy graphics we have today



        DNA - God's amazing programming; evidence for his existence 

         

        The Power of God E=MC2

         


        Creation vs. Evolution: Amazing Bird Migration


        God of Wonders (awesome full length documentary)


         

        Friday, November 14, 2014

        With a little help from my friend

        I have always had trouble getting up at a set time every day and particularly getting up early and being a night owl doesn't help.  In fact, I have never been a scheduled or routine person and that might be due to personality and bad habits I developed over time.  Yet, I have noticed that some people have a routine and stick to it. That was never me for long.  However, when I did get up early I loved the quiet of the mornings and it was definitely my most productive time (once the grogginess left).

        During the Feast this year, I made a concerted effort to rise early and was successful but after returning home I went back into the same undisciplined routine. By the end of the first week after the Feast I was disgusted with myself and decided that I had to change. So I pondered what can I do? Then I remembered Mr Armstrong's experience and how he engaged the help of a bellboy to ensure he got up on time and stayed up. Well there are no bellboys around here, but I did have a friend who I knew was disciplined in getting up very early every day. Maybe I could ask her to help me. I must admit that my pride did not want me to ask and expose this character flaw, but if I was going to change for the better I would have to do it "by any means necessary!". So I asked my friend if I could text her at 5.30am every morning (weekdays). She happily agreed and the project began.

        I set my alarm for 5.25am and the accountability has motivated me to get up on time for the past 3 weeks. Not only that, but another friend had the same issue as me so she joined in and we have a kind of round-robin of uplifting morning texting!

        As well as overcoming a bad habit, this project has built up our sisterhood as we have encouraged each other daily: "And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and good works" Heb 10:24.

        If you struggle with the same habit read "Rise Early" on pcog.org and maybe by employing help from a friend you can do better too.

        It's Official - PCG Gains New Campus in Britain



        EDMOND—The Philadelphia Church of God officially purchased a new campus in England on November 12. United Kingdom/Europe Regional Director Brad Macdonald received the keys today from a Sotheby’s real estate agent, marking the official closing of the deal and opening of a new chapter for the Church’s work in Britain and Europe.
        The estate will serve as a new location for the Church’s regional office in England. A handful of students from Herbert W. Armstrong College will also travel to England to support the Church’s work in the region.

        Edstone Hall, a 24,000-square-foot mansion in the Warwickshire countryside, contains more than 30 rooms. Built in 1939 in the art deco style, the building has an oak double-door entrance into a stained glass vestibule, stone mullion windows, stone fireplaces, balconies, a 5,500-square-foot Georgian cellar, a Cotswold stone roof and a detached garage. The 22-acre campus sits among the meadows about 4 miles north of Stratford-upon-Avon.

        The parkland surrounding the hall includes meadows, pastures and woodland including mature oak and beech trees, as well as walking paths, gardens and a cedar of Lebanon; it also overlooks a large pond. The property also includes planning permissions for a 10,000-square-foot additional building, and an indoor swimming pool and a leisure complex.

        “I believe God has long been preparing Edstone for His Church,” Mr. Macdonald said. “Edstone is ideal for the pcg—a perfect combination of majesty and functionality. It’s dignified and impressive, yet practical and sensible.”

        Receiving the key to Edstone Hall capped off a two-year quest for a new campus in England. In December 2012, pcg Pastor General Gerald Flurry asked Mr. Macdonald to search the London area for estates that could fulfill the needs of an expanded work in Britain and Europe. Mr. Macdonald soon discovered that the former Ambassador College campus in Bricket Wood was for sale. The college there closed 40 years ago, in 1974.

        In March 2013, the Church placed an offer on a portion of the Bricket Wood estate, including its mansion, Hanstead House, and a cottage where Ambassador College founder Herbert W. Armstrong stayed during his visits to the campus. Mr. Flurry announced the offer in July during a sermon at Philadelphia Youth Camp in Edmond. But over the next nine months, the sale decelerated. The owner of the Bricket Wood estate, a London real estate development company, was denied planning permission for its residential neighborhood by the St. Albans Council. This prevented an expedient sale to the pcg.

        This April, Evangelist Stephen Flurry and his family flew to Britain, and he and Mr. Macdonald spent several days attempting to reconcile with the developer and the town council. On the final evening of their time together in Britain, the Flurry and Macdonald families gathered to discuss the happenings of the trip. During the course of the evening, Mr. Macdonald searched online to see what the £4.5 million the Church had offered could buy elsewhere, and found several estates of similar grandeur and a lower asking price.

        “There was a kind of epiphany,” Mr. Macdonald said. “Why not look elsewhere? we thought. We did a quick Internet search, and within minutes we were oohing and aaahing over at least a dozen other magnificent homes, all of which were less expensive and came with greater acreage and more features.”

        Later that week, Mr. Gerald Flurry determined that the door to Bricket Wood was closed and directed Mr. Macdonald to search for other estates. Along with regional office manager David Howard and editorial department writer Richard Palmer, Mr. Macdonald spent two weeks parsing dozens of possibilities and visiting more than 20, the last of which was Edstone on May 5. On May 8, Mr. Flurry and his son flew to England and viewed six estates over the next two days. On May 14, the pcg submitted an offer on the estate in Warwickshire, which was quickly accepted and became official in early June.

        Mr. Gerald Flurry announced the offer during a Bible study in Edmond on May 16 at the beginning of the AC graduation weekend. After nearly five months of routine inspections, legal paperwork and negotiations, contracts were exchanged and the sale was formalized on September 24. At the Feast of Tabernacles on October 8, pcg members at 16 sites around the globe learned the location, name and details of the estate in a taped opening night presentation by Mr. Stephen Flurry.

        Assistant dean of students Eric Burns announced on October 29 that 11 Herbert W. Armstrong College students and graduates from Edmond—Christopher Eames, Jessie Hester, Samuel Livingston, Kiall Lorenz, Brooke Davis, Victoria Lancaster, Nick Irwin, Emmanuel Michels, Kaitlin Eames, Anya Trietsch, Paris Turgeon—will transfer to Edstone to serve in the pcg office for the spring semester.

        UK office staff and contractors are currently renovating Edstone Hall, updating fixtures and appliances, and installing new flooring, partition walls, paint and a computer network. pcg chief operations officer Andrew Locher said the technology should increase website performance, create a secure connection to the Church’s headquarters campus, and facilitate broadcast production.
        Meanwhile, the Church’s regional office operations will move from a 900-square-foot facility in the Northampton town center to approximately 5,000 square feet in Edstone Hall devoted to office space.

        “With the greatly expanded office space now available to us, we anticipate expanded regional operations to immediately get underway from Edstone,” Mr. Locher said. “I was excited to see the fine quality of construction that is move-in ready. Of course we will add our personal touch to the property, but for the most part, we can move in and expand our operations from day one. There is much work to do with the details, but with our experienced staff having already developed a campus, we are ready for the challenges and hope previous experience will move the process along rapidly.”

        “There is much work to be done between now and mid-January, when 15 students and HQ employees will be moving to Edstone,” Mr. Stephen Flurry said. “With Mr. Macdonald and his family now living at Edstone, renovations can begin right away.”

        The renovations and additional room will allow the office to expand its operations, which currently include literature request fulfillment, business, member services and convention planning. Mr. Macdonald says he hopes to move the office into Edstone the last week of December. The first semester of Herbert W. Armstrong College–England commences January 12.
        Watch Stephen Flurry’s new Trumpet Daily program, taped on site at Edstone.



        Source: https://www.pcog.org/article/884/pcg-gains-new-campus-in-britain